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Aynur's spirit's avatar

Loving a person unconditionally doesn't always mean you should tolerate someone fully in your life. You can love someone unconditionally on a distance and wish them well? Or love someone unconditionally and just share only what feels ok for you. önce can sonra canan ;)

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Ali Türkan's avatar

Thats really a good take again and also huge topic to discuss on. I guess pure love is always the unconditional one that you expect nothing from the other, like the love of your son, mother or your dog. I also think that our traditional reward - penalty style of child growing culture had some role on adding conditions to everything. Even we forgot to love or accept ourselves unconditionally and thats also a part of a perfectionism problem. Accepting the things as it is and knowing that nothing and nothing is perfect is the key imo. Thank you.

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Esra's avatar

Thank you...

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Gurkan Guven's avatar

No one perfect and it is ok

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Merve's avatar

çok güzel bir yazı. deneyimlerinizi paylaştığınız için teşekkür ediyorum. sizi merakla takip ediyor olacağım.

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turermys's avatar

Everything shouldn't always be about us.

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Sidika Tunc Candogan's avatar

Could you please clarify what you mean?

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turermys's avatar

I mean the world is so big.

Thinking too much about yourself

It feels selfish.

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Sidika Tunc Candogan's avatar

Do you have control over anything but yourself?

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