Your boss constantly says, “I care about you,” but when it comes to making simple adjustments to make your professional life easier, s/he doesn’t do it.
I've been thinking about it all night, and now the sun's coming up. Whatever. Sacrifice is necessary. But this time for ourselves. A life of fewer words and more deeds... 🙏🏻
I should also add one important thing that, sensitive people like me are much more vulnerable to these kind of stuff in life, so accepting life and people as it is with good and bad and wearing our own protective shields is also important at the long road .
Topic is great.. I can actually write long :) but will cut it short. I think we should keep our expectations at base levels at anytime for anything we could imagine in order to be happy in life except our goals and future aims. Thats the first and most important rule. Number 2; Besides our parents and very loved ones like our wife or husband, the rest will always be jealous about our success or our much better life than theirs' !! And the third one; our mother or beloved ones truly love us, but at the same time, they generally dont care about our own desires.:)). they want us to stay in their hometown, they want us to work at kind of places they perceive more suitable for us, or even stay at their choice of apartment etc. As you realise, thats also a kind of expectation from a son or daughter in some way. but thats truly not healthy.. and its called selfishness :)) So at the end not caring and realising the situation is the key imo.
its cool and understood your point. As i stated in my notes , i also wanted to imply "goals & aims" and excepted them because those high errors between reality & expectations will make our life worth to live and we should accept the vast amount of discrepency at there. Let me give you an example ; think about a very high level runner running at the olympics for a final run aiming for gold metal, if he wins he will be the olympic champion, but he looses for a 0.001 seconds and he gets the silver, and also a local young runner aiming for being the first & gold medalist in a district race in a small town but he/she gets the second, they will both probably have less or more the same amount of disappointment ?
Do we need any support? I am not sure except for professional support if needed. On the other hand, action speaks louder than us.. Have a nice Sunday.. Thank you for your post..
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I've been thinking about it all night, and now the sun's coming up. Whatever. Sacrifice is necessary. But this time for ourselves. A life of fewer words and more deeds... 🙏🏻
Sleep is super important😉
I should also add one important thing that, sensitive people like me are much more vulnerable to these kind of stuff in life, so accepting life and people as it is with good and bad and wearing our own protective shields is also important at the long road .
Topic is great.. I can actually write long :) but will cut it short. I think we should keep our expectations at base levels at anytime for anything we could imagine in order to be happy in life except our goals and future aims. Thats the first and most important rule. Number 2; Besides our parents and very loved ones like our wife or husband, the rest will always be jealous about our success or our much better life than theirs' !! And the third one; our mother or beloved ones truly love us, but at the same time, they generally dont care about our own desires.:)). they want us to stay in their hometown, they want us to work at kind of places they perceive more suitable for us, or even stay at their choice of apartment etc. As you realise, thats also a kind of expectation from a son or daughter in some way. but thats truly not healthy.. and its called selfishness :)) So at the end not caring and realising the situation is the key imo.
I am not sure about number 1... See my happiness equation in this post: https://open.substack.com/pub/sidikatunccandogan/p/revised-equation-of-happiness?r=1ug87f&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false
its cool and understood your point. As i stated in my notes , i also wanted to imply "goals & aims" and excepted them because those high errors between reality & expectations will make our life worth to live and we should accept the vast amount of discrepency at there. Let me give you an example ; think about a very high level runner running at the olympics for a final run aiming for gold metal, if he wins he will be the olympic champion, but he looses for a 0.001 seconds and he gets the silver, and also a local young runner aiming for being the first & gold medalist in a district race in a small town but he/she gets the second, they will both probably have less or more the same amount of disappointment ?
Do we need any support? I am not sure except for professional support if needed. On the other hand, action speaks louder than us.. Have a nice Sunday.. Thank you for your post..
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